Wednesday, July 9, 2014

What I'm Reading - Mrs D is Going Without

Another memoir - about a successful woman - career, husband, children, nice home.... who battled with alcohol. Mrs D comes to the confronting realisation that even though she's not some dodgy drunk whose the stereotypical 'alkie', she does in fact have a problem.

As she says, I don't think my high-functioning boozing story is uncommon. I believe there are many thousands of people like me who are doing well in their outward life but in truth are regularly sinking far too much piss and always feeling guilty about it.

So she begins her journey living without.


Perhaps as a non-drinker (not strictly, I just don't like beer or wine) this is an unusual choice for me but I really enjoyed reading it. As part of her plan Mrs D starts a blog and finds huge support from her beautiful readers - and that I could totally relate to.

As a blogger it challenged me to be more open and honest in the ways I blog and to reflect on the fact that the blog posts that stay with me more than others are the people who express, from time to time, the struggles and worries they face.

Mrs D also faces a huge move away from family and friends as she journeys and I find myself smiling and having a wee cry as I reflected on the emotional wrench of leaving a loving environment where people know you and love you.

I think this book would be very encouraging to anyone who feels haunted by secrets and habits that control their life. It is pacey and easy to read.

Details - published by Allen and Unwin July 2014 RRP $29.99, also available as an ebook

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Intriguing book review! Sounds like one to put on my 'Must Read' list!
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1 reply · active 557 weeks ago
Sounds like a great read :-) I think I've heard of her in the news over here too.
1 reply · active 557 weeks ago
probably - her hubby is a reporter and they live in wtgn now.
I watched Mrs D is going without on TV the other night and cried - we knew of them when they lived in Auckland, their boys and my boy attending Scouts together. I still relate the hilarious story of the evening my hubby met Mr D . . . .
And I like your comment re openess and honesty about struggling - I've really hid from the cyber web how hard my life has been the past month, maybe I should write/say why I've done a disappearing act? But really do people really want to read?
AND THANK YOU SO MUCH your kind kind kind gift arrived in the mail today as did my swap parcel, which I feel 100% guilty about receiving.
1 reply · active 557 weeks ago
it's a balance to find for sure but I think genuine openness is usually met with genuine love. So pleased the wee package arrived and your swap parcel too xx happy mail day xxx just what the dr ordered x
This story sounds familiar - and like a great read. People are amazing creatures x
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1 reply · active 557 weeks ago
true - it's very inspiring to see what grit and will power can achieve 

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